To Silver Lining,
In August 2009, we met Elvy Mitchell at Rydal Park Rehab where we interviewed her for a job as an aide for our 92 year old father. He had fallen while home alone, causing no broken bones, but many other issues. He was confined to a bed and wheelchair after a week long hospital stay, unable to do physical therapy without pain and very weak. After speaking to Elvy for only ten minutes, it was clear that this quiet, dignified woman was special and she was hired. Six years later, our Dad passed away at home peacefully.
People use the word angel loosely. But Elvy is. She moved into Dad’s apartment right away and established a schedule that met his needs, not hers—his favorite breakfast, his paper for his morning read—his previous routine. Elvy brought him back to a productive life, walks with her, lunches out with his buddies, watching sports on TV, enjoying family, all of them with her by his side, keeping him safe and content. She met every challenge with patience and intelligence.
No need went unattended. Elvy was an aide but really became more like a trained nurse. The physical therapist taught Elvy exercises Dad needed to perform every morning in bed. When a health issue arose, like a skin cancer removed from his leg, Elvy applied expert wound care. When dad needed a temporary catheter, Elvy managed his care. She calmly dealt with emergencies, never missing a sign when a situation became more than she could handle and calling us to confirm before calling 911. She saved his life several times using her good judgment. Elvy is an angel in our eyes and a friend. Her family values mesh with ours.
She is one of the most selfless people we have ever met. Dad came first for Elvy and it was she who organized help to replace her when she took a weekend off or a vacation, leaving detailed instructions for Dad’s care. Somewhat meek when we first met her, Elvy grew assertive when Dad’s needs were not met. Her kindness, discipline and attention to detail are unparalleled. You would be fortunate to have Elvy take care of your loved one because she will treat him or her as she would a member of her own family.
Sincerely,
Susan and Lisa